Not Prostitution, Solution!

The Conundrum

Let's get real folks. When men "date", they're rarely ever interested in anything but sex. Think about it. At what point is a man attracted to a woman? The first time her sees her. Women are absolutely no different. They see a man and they're either attracted or not. It's all visual cues. It's not as if there's an "employment" website for dating where you look at people's "resumes" to decide if they'd be a good fit in your life. Pictures get the most responses for a reason. The point is that it's not a mental decision nor even a decision of the heart to want to date someone. It's a genital decision. And, that goes for all of us.

Of course, as time goes by, you get a chance to develop that mental attraction and potentially develop a loving relationship. In the long run, that's all we want anyway. However, in the short term, we want sex, great sex, and we want it without the hassle.

We're All Whores Anyway

When it comes to men, sex is not really an issue. We see it, we like it, we hump it. That's it. There's no deciphering of code or complex social structures. Just give up the booty. Although women have sex on their minds just as much as men, they want to put the man through trials and tribulations. You've got to go out on dates, get to know each other, and so on. Usually for most women, three to five dates, if you can make it that far, gets you in the bed. Of course, some women have different, stricter rules - time periods or marriage.

The truth of the matter is that while most men come cheap, most women simply have a higher price. The question we need to know is what's that price? Many women will give it up for the money, no problem. But, we, as men, have this view that we shouldn't have to pay for it. Yet, we do pay for it. In fact, we pay for it all the time. Even pimps have to invest time and money into a potential whore before her can turn her, so to speak. Very rarely do we get into situations where we can just grab a woman and bring her home for sex. That's kidnapping and rape in many areas around the world (except the Middle East, or so it seems). So, unfortunately for most men and their egos, we're all tricking anyway! We've been tricking since five-cattle dowries.

The point is to stop putting up the act as if you're not and let's come up with a viable solution for everyone.

Solution: Pay her price

Since most men already come cheap, we don't really have to worry about paying a man's price. It's really all about a woman's price. Depending on the woman and her dating, or get sex, policy, the prices may fluctuate.

For example, take a hood rat who insists on three to five dates before she gives up the goods to anyone. She's probably used to McDonald's and cheap Hennessey. Maybe she'll request Red Lobster or Olive Garden, a chain restaurant, since those are typical upper crust restaurants to a hood rat. And, we've got to take her to the movies or something. We could price a full date with a hood rat to be in the range of $30 to $90. Now, if you subtract the costs of time, travel, and managing yourself, a hood rat would cost you a minimum of $50 to a maximum of $200.

Let's break this down further. Minimum, you're spending about $15 for McDonald's and another $15 for fifth of Hennessey. That's $30. Subtract your own personal costs and what you actually give to her is about $15. Over three to five dates, she gets about $45 to $75. Throw in an extra $5 for tip and that's how we come to the magical price. Maximum, you go for the movie and chain restaurant. In New York City, we're talking $35 for the movie and $50 for the dinner. That's $85 per date, $255 for three dates and $425 for five dates. Now, cut that in half and you get about $120 to $200. Throw in an extra $5 for tip. There you go.

I Figure...

You can save yourself some time over the next 30 days if she just offers a price for full blown sex in that price range. She can use that money to buy groceries, shoes, pay her rent and so on. It would make sense to throttle the price according to actual skill and service performed. What if I just wanted a blow job? A guy shouldn't have to pay the full blown sex price for some head.

What's good for the goose is good for the gander, of course! There are definitely some men who some women go crazy over, like porn stars. I think women should pay men if they're sought. It's all about who wants what from whom. What do you folks think? What kind of man or woman are you? What's your price?

I figure, depending on the woman, I'd mostly be free of charge. LOL.